Reality Reboot
For women who built the career, raised the kids, held it all together - and are ready to finally decide what they want, and get it.
>>Format: Online Modules via dedicated app
>>Support: App-Based Community + Fortnightly Live Coaching
>>Investment: £129/Month
This is for you if...
...You're the one everyone leans on - but can't remember the last time someone asked how you're doing
...You've started snapping at people you love and look in the mirror some days and don't recognise the woman looking back - you want to feel like yourself again
...You've tried therapy, HRT, the gym, the supplements, but something underneath it all is still unsolved
...You feel a resentment simmering that you're too scared to name out loud
...You're tired of wondering what it's all for and ready to feel fulfilled, aligned and excited again
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Testimonial
Hey, I'm Shelley!
“When I joined Reality Reboot, I was working in a high-pressure role and was feeling disconnected from my usual high performing and happy self, confident on the outside, but internally wrestling with self-doubt and incongruence in my identity....
...This programme couldn’t have come at a better time. I experienced a deep reset. I gained clarity on what truly matters to me and began to shed the old stories that had kept me in overdrive. Victoria provides regular GOLD insights that will live with me forever.
...The resources were practical, yet soulful and deeply insightful, touching nerves sometimes that were necessary for growth and tools I know I’ll return to often.“
Therapy helped you understand your story.
Reality Reboot helps you reforge it.
We work directly on the automatic patterns driving what you're experiencing - and change them.
It's a monthly rhythm, not a weekend intensive you can't sustain.
If you're fed up of this...
Being the one everyone leans on, with no one asking how you're doing
Saying yes out of guilt, until there's no room left for you
Snapping at the people you love, then carrying the shame of it
Feeling a resentment simmering that you can't say out loud
Not recognising the woman in the mirror
Wondering if this - tired, flat, holding it all together - is just what's left
Feeling like you're the only one that feels this way
And would like this...
Relationships that feel reciprocal, not one-sided
Saying no without guilt, because you know what you're protecting
Meeting hard moments from calm instead of reacting
Feeling proud of who you are, not ashamed of who you've become
Recognising yourself again - steadier, lighter, more you
Believing this next chapter could be your best one, not a decline to manage
Turning what you already know into change that actually sticks
Being surrounded by women who actually get it, because they're living it too
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Hey, I'm Sam!
“In the beginning of Reality Reboot I wanted to work on my confidence and not be as dependant on my husband.
I feel I have achieved that… It really made me look at myself, and how I'm reacting to things, and how I perceive things, and how I'm interpreting things. And that there is another way. It helped me become healthier emotionally and more aware of who I am, how I am reacting to situations, how much blame I was carrying that was informing my life. By just looking at everything in a different way it changes things. It helps all your relationships.
I feel I discovered that I am brave, strong, fun, attractive, worthy.
The real lesson I learned was that rewriting your life (script) is an ongoing process and it needs to be practiced everyday.”
Meet Dr Victoria...
By 2022, I looked like I had it together. Three kids, a successful business, a marriage that looked great on paper.
But underneath, I didn't recognise myself. I was struggling with demotivation, occasional rage that came out of nowhere, low energy and major mood swings.
I was short-tempered with the people I loved most, and then ashamed of how short-tempered I'd been.
My marriage was under real strain and I didn't know how much of that was me, how much was him, and how much was just... life.
I'd spent years training in NLP, mindset work, subconscious pattern release - tools I'd used to help other people.
I didn't expect to need them for myself, and certainly not for something as mundane as perimenopause. But when I finally turned my toolkit to my own patterns - the quiet resentment, the rage, the disconnection from my own identity - everything got more manageable.
It didn't fix my hormones. But it let me access the part underneath the hormones - the identity shifts no GP was ever going to solve.
My marriage survived. I got my energy and motivation back and I began to feel like myself again.
And I built Reality Reboot because I don't think a single woman going through this should have to figure it out alone.
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This is what other clients have already experienced...
"Recommend her fully"
"Victoria is intuitive, skilled at her craft, and an all around wonderful human being, who has lived corporate life to the fullest, highest levels, and helps you to thrive as you search your own fulfilment. Recommend her fully!"
- Adriana Q
"Full of knowledge"
"Dr. Victoria Stakelum has the ability to communicate and explain complex concepts in an easy way. She is full of knowledge and very authentic, truly inspirational woman."
- Joanna G
"Very experienced in her field"
"I would really recommend Victoria to anyone looking for help. A very relaxed none judgemental approach and obviously very experienced in her field"
- Keeley
This is the formula to successfully Rebooting your Reality
Let me show you how we're going to take you from where you are now
to where you want to be.
Module 1: Introduction and Foundational Principles
🌱 Navigate Change with Confidence
Change won't derail you anymore. You'll know how to stay steady when life shifts under you - recognising the difference between a stretch that's growing you and a panic that's depleting you - so you move through transitions instead of being flattened by them.
Module 2: Holistic Lifemap
🧭 See Your Life Clearly, Then Redraw It
You'll see clearly, for the first time in years, exactly where you've been settling - in your work, your relationships, your own life - and why. You'll leave with a personal rulebook for what you're no longer willing to tolerate, and the confidence to actually hold that line.
Module 3: Understanding & Managing Emotions
🧘 Master Your Emotions, Achieve Inner Peace
The moods that ambush you, the reactions you can't quite explain — you'll finally understand where they come from and how to meet them without being run by them. What used to knock you sideways for a day will start to pass through you instead, so you're choosing your response, not being hijacked by it.
Module 4: Creating Confidence
💪 Step Into Your Power
Underneath the competent, capable version of you that everyone relies on, you'll reconnect with what you're actually made of - your real strengths, not the ones you perform. You'll start trusting yourself again, not just managing everyone else's expectations.
Module 5: Building Self-Worth
🌸 Fill Your Own Cup First
You'll stop operating from an empty cup and start understanding why you've made that your default for so long. This is where you begin to believe - not just intellectually, but in your bones - that you're worth the same care you give everyone else.
Module 6: Transforming Relationships
🤝 Make Your Closest Relationships Reciprocal Again
The dynamics that feel one-sided or stuck - with your partner, your children, the people who matter - will start to shift. You'll understand the roles you've been playing without realising it, and build the tools to make those relationships feel reciprocal again, not just managed.
Module 7: Unlocking your new vision
🌟 Align your Dreams with your Purpose
You'll put down the old story about who you're supposed to be and get honest about who you actually want to become. This is where a vague sense of "there has to be more" turns into a clear, specific picture of your next chapter - one you're actively building toward, not just hoping for.
Module 8: Busting Through Blocks and Resistance
🔓 Release What's Been Holding You Back
Whatever's been quietly working against you - procrastination, self-sabotage, the pattern of starting and stalling - you'll finally see it clearly and release its hold. What's kept you stuck stops being invisible, and you get your momentum back.
Module 9: Activating your New Energy
⚡ Engage Your HERO Superpower
Insight and information isn't the same as transformationon its own hasn't been enough — you've read the books, you know the theory. This module turns everything you've uncovered into a real, structured plan, so the change you've been working toward actually happens in your life, not just in your head.
"It covers things that nobody teaches you"
“I joined Reality Reboot because... It covers things that people don't really talk about - that nobody ever teaches you...
I’m taking things less personally - I understand that people’s actions and reactions are not always about me.
It allowed me to see myself more clearly. Not only do I understand more about why and when I feel certain emotions, but I'm also able to see that from other people's perspective. That has really helped me with communication with people and connections.”
- Dani H
"Gives you successful results"
"When I began Reality Reboot, I was going through a very tough time in my professional life... I now have the tools to really assess how I react to things, how to understand how to think things through and understand my own flaws and embrace them instead of fighting them.
The programme itself is very well put together and is the perfect blend of tough self-reflection exercises and live expert insight and support from Dr Victoria with the community resources and Q&A sessions.
Dr Victoria has thought of everything to make sure this programme gives you successful results on improving life and really giving you a Reality Reboot!"
- Claire
And this is how we're going to make it happen...
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Your Award Winning Coach
Expert Psychologist and Mindset Coach Dr Victoria Stakelum has lived the corporate life and successfully made the switch to live a life aligned with her happiness.
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High-Impact Modules
Rooted in NLP Coaching, our High Impact Modules focus on a specific shift each month, to upgrade your beliefs and behaviours
3
Monthly Q&A
Get your questions answered, explore what came up for you in the module and connect with others on the path.
4
Live Monthly Spotlight Coaching
Receive high impact NLP coaching, clear blocks in real time and go deep on specific themes.
5
Integration Tools
Worksheets, prompts, audio activations, and simple rituals to embed changes into your everyday reality.
6
Community Support
Optional - but available.
Stay connected with others who are walking the same journey.
"You deserve to live a life you love and Reality Reboot has been created to help you achieve that!"
Dr Victoria Stakelum, Founder of The Success Smith
Here's all the value that's waiting for you, so you can get started on making a lasting positive change in your personal and professional life.
Unlock your access to Reality Reboot
You're likely already spending £150-300/month on gym memberships, supplements, therapy and other wellness solutions, but that's asking a lot and giving inconsistent results.
Reality Reboot is £129/month for one integrated system - consolidation, not addition.
Monthly Membership
£129
Monthly payments via direct debit.
Immediate membership activation and access to Module 1 and Bonuses
Access to additional module each month for 9 months.
Want to know more?
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the dates I need to know about Reality Reboot?
Your membership will activate as soon as you sign up.
For those who have annual membership you will receive access to all content immediately.
For those on monthly membership you will receive access to a new module each month, for 9 months.
Spotlight Coaching Sessions take place on the 2nd Wednesday of Every Month at 1.30pm GMT for 1 hour.
Q&A Calls take place on the last Thursday of each month at 1.30pm GMT for 1 hour.
Don't worry, you'll receive emails and reminders in advance of each session.
If you have any questions please email: [email protected]
How do I know if this is for me?
This is for you if you're feeling stuck or frustrated in one or many areas of your life and you’re keen to upgrade your experience of life.
You might not know exactly what it is that is going wrong or quite what you need, but you know that something needs to change.
You’re unsure of exactly how and where to start and you’d love a supportive, guiding presence in your life to help you figure out how to make change happen and gently hold you to account for making that change when it feels difficult or scary.
If you have any questions please email: [email protected]
What's unique about Reality Reboot?
The delivery of expertise and the breadth of knowledge you’ll receive can be devoured quickly for immediate action or taken entirely at your own pace - either way if you complete the work, you will see a change.
The beauty of Reality Reboot is that:
You can ask any question(s) relating to any issue you need to work through or that's been blocking you in a live session directly with Dr Victoria Stakelum.
In parallel, you’ll be proactively guided through a transformational change process that will result in major change, experienced gently.
The best bit is that you’ll have access to Dr Victoria Stakelum, a multi-award winning psychologist and mindset coach, whose clients rave about her insight, kindness and ability to get the best from them. You can hear from her clients here.
If you have any questions please email: [email protected]
How does it work?
This is an online course with 9 modules which will be delivered via The Success Smith app, this can be downloaded here.
If you have annual membership, once you've enrolled you will have access to the entire course.
If you have a monthly membership you will get access to the first module upon enrolment, thereafter each month unlocks a new module.
There will be additional support opportunities such as a Spotlight Coaching Session and a live Q&A with Dr Victoria. These dates will be communicated to you via the app and through emails.
If you have any questions please email: [email protected]
How long will it take for me to see changes in my life?
You will identify profound insights from the outset of your journey in the Reality Reboot process.
From there, change can occur extremely rapidly, for some, as soon as days or weeks after beginning the process. We work at a pace that is right for you and finds the balance of stretching you without throwing you into extreme discomfort as you let go of what hasn’t served you and begin building your new world, so everyone’s journey is different. However if rapid change is what you are hoping for, it is absolutely available to you.
If you have any questions please email: [email protected]
I have more questions, can you help?
Sure - no problem at all!
Simply drop an email to: [email protected]
The philosophy behind Reality Reboot is rooted in the belief that lasting change begins with clarity and empowerment.
By challenging outdated narratives and limiting beliefs, the programme fosters self-awareness and equips individuals with practical tools to realign their mindset, take control of their reality, and unlock their full potential. It’s about transforming the way you think, so you can transform the way you live.